1973: Strangers: A Review of the Marriage Memoir Everyone's Talking About

“It is a masterclass in what can go wrong when you opt out of your financial life. And not because someone hid something from you, but because you chose to not look. And that's in part what makes this story hit so hard. We're going to go deeper into all of it.”

“And to try and find a way to politely say, and provide the tough love of saying, like, this is not about trust. This is about more agency. It's about your options, about visibility and transparency. Transparency and trust are mutually exclusive.”

“I think of this as the things are good trap. I think it's very easy for folks with enough financial stability to fall into a trap of, well, things are good. We can do everything we want to do. Our kids can go to the camps they want to go to. We go on our vacations, we own our home... until they're not, until they're not.”

“He wants to come after her to get his fair share of the homes that they own. So now this is like really bad news for her because yes she's an heiress but she had used basically she'd emptied her trust accounts to buy these homes and had put them in his name and her name.”

“The social pressure and the appearance and the betrayal of realizing who would really stand by, what are these friendships and these relationships? What do they actually stand on, aside from the status quo of you both being rich and married and whatever those rich married things are that you do together? Like, I think she was realizing, like, how hollow it all was.”