168: Why I've Changed My Mind About Chasing Success
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Fatherhood requires more than financial provision - Brian Ortega reflects on the realization that being a young father meant learning that providing money is secondary to emotional presence and guidance as children grow.
“So as long as I was able to make money, I thought I was doing a good job. But then I realized later down the road that it's just not about just giving them.”
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Intentionality beats forced discipline in parenting - After failing to force his children into Jiu-Jitsu at age four, Ortega found success by waiting for them to develop their own interest and then balancing his roles as a goofy dad and professional instructor.
“I have a father hat, and then I have an instructor hat. And it's almost like two different people.”
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High-level mentorship alters life trajectories - Being mentored by the Gracie family provided a Harvard-level education in Jiu-Jitsu and life that transformed Ortega's confidence, business mindset, and ability to navigate the world.
“I'm under the Gracie family... It's like getting your master from Harvard with them... it changed everything about me.”